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Rhys Carter Packham

It’s been a few days since we welcomed Rhys Carter Packham into our family. We are so thrilled to have our fifth son, and can’t believe how lucky we have been. He is beautiful and perfect.

From Rhys Carter Packham birth

He has some pretty thick dark hair on his head and he’s got some chubby cheeks. He was born at 9:41 am on February 2, 2002 (Groundhogs Day), and came out at a hefty 7lb 12oz (our biggest baby yet), and 20 inches long.

As for the birth story … Aubrey basically had her water break a little bit around 5:45 am, so we woke up and started getting ready with showers and getting dressed, etc. and started timing the contractions. We dropped our kids off at a couple of friends’ houses and were at the hospital by maybe 7:30am. Even though Aubrey’s contractions were coming fairly regularly, I don’t think she thought they were exceptionally strong, so she kept feeling lame for coming to the hospital, though I think deep down she knew the baby was on its way soon. Once we were in the room, her water more fully broke on the floor so we knew for sure it was go time. From that point, her contractions continued to strengthen on a steady basis every few minutes and seemed to get steadily more intense. After a few rather intense contractions, the baby’s head about visible then it crowned and a few pushes later his head was out. His cord was around his neck and they had to cut it before his body was delivered, and when he came out he was a bit “shocked” from the fast dropping into the canal (“precipitous” is the word they used). So, they had to jumpstart his breathing with some positive pressure ventilation, but it took less than a minute before we heard his first scream. That was a sound like no other after seeing him come out not quite responsive. Oh, and obviously when he came out I saw right away it was a boy, and I called out “It’s a boy”, and I wasn’t surprised at all. I guess I recognize the body part quite easily at this point after having all boys.

From Rhys Carter Packham birth

After they got him breathing, they took him off to the special care nursery to make sure he continued to breathe well, etc. so Aubrey and I were not able to just hold him for the first little while. I think we didn’t totally mind this time because Aubrey seemed pretty drained and exhausted from the intense work she had just done, which was awesome to behold. She has delivered five babies now (the last four with no pain medication), and each time it has been beautiful and powerful and frightening to watch, each time bringing tears to my eyes to see her in pain and yet so focused and determined and strong. She is truly amazing. I love that I get to experience this all with her.

From Rhys Carter Packham birth

For the last month or so, we had been pretty sure that we like the name Rhys/Reece if we had a boy, but we’d been struggling with the spelling and also didn’t have a middle name. At one point we were kind of leaning toward Reece and people kept asking, so I went ahead and posted on Facebook that we were calling him Reece. But after a couple days thinking about it and with the official birth certificate needing to be filled out before we left the hospital, Aubrey and I spent some time re-thinking the spelling. We just kept coming back to the more traditional but more unusual and different spelling of Rhys. In the end, we both preferred it much more and realized we’d regret not using that spelling if we went with Reece, which we thought was also nice but just lacked that certain something in our minds. For a middle name we went with Carter, which is a family name on both sides: Aubrey’s grandma’s maiden name (Laurene Grace Carter Smailes), and my great-great-grandma’s maiden name (Junietta Carter Wall). So … we decided on Rhys Carter Packham and we totally love it! We think it fits right in with the rest of our boys’ names and will be a great, strong, and unique name for him to carry through his life.

From Rhys Carter Packham birth

His brothers have been absolutely adorable with him. Although a couple of them were really hoping for a girl (which was cute), they were instantly excited to hear he was a boy. They all love stroking his head and saying hi to him and holding him any chance they can get. When they got home from school on Thursday to find us at home with Rhys, they all ran upstairs and climbed on the bed all leaning over him and saying “hi Rhys!” and stroking his hair. It’s definitely a proud moment to see older siblings so excited for the younger ones. They will be great examples in the younger ones’ lives — examples for good, I’m sure.

From Rhys Carter Packham birth

My new ukulele

For our last Blues Brethren performance, my friend Nate picked up a ukulele so we could do a couple of new tunes, including Mele Kalikimaka and Somewhere Over the Rainbow. He kept raving about how fun the ukulele was, and I thought it sounded fun. So, I got one for Christmas.

It turned out to be a cheapo, but I was able to play around on it for a few days before the tuners totally lost all capability to do their job. So I ordered an actual ukulele instrument, a Kala KA-C concert size ukulele:

It still wasn’t very expensive, but it is so fun to mess around on.

I don’t think I’ll ever get as good as this Jake Shimabukuro guy, but oh well:

Fall pictures: 5th bday, zoo, halloween

We’ve had a fun couple of months, with Wesley’s 5th birthday, a fun trip to the NC Zoo in Asheboro, and Halloween.

From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween
From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween

And here’s a pic of Aubrey from Sept. 29 when she was 20 weeks along:

From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween

2009 school pics for our handsome boys

In my humble opinion, my boys are very handsome. If I get pics from Wesley’s pre-school or some candid shots of Grady, I’ll add them here too, but for now I’ll just post the official school portraits for Collin (3rd grade) and Owen (2nd grade):

Collin – 3rd grade:

From 2009 school portraits

Owen – 2nd grade:

From 2009 school portraits

Ready for fall, start of school, great artist, and boating

I think we’re all ready for the fall around here. The weather has been very comfortable (perfect) the last few days, Collin has been playing soccer, the boys have started school, and we’re in September. Can’t believe it’s already September and we’re heading out of another summer.

Owen had a great 7th birthday party. We had just a family party at a local bounce house where Aubrey had some free passes, so it was just the boys and us and a pizza. We had a party room all to ourselves and it was so easy and inexpensive. Owen was desperate for a few certain Lego sets, so he was thrilled to get the one he wanted, plus one more! I guess we couldn’t resist.

From Owen's birthday and first day of school
From Owen's birthday and first day of school

And, of course Collin and Owen started school at the end of August. Our school had previously been on a year-round calendar for the last two years, but they switched it back to traditional, which we think is good since they get a nice summer break.

From Owen's birthday and first day of school

And here’s a funny story that Aubrey passed along to me: Wesley is a very focused kid when he is drawing pictures. He draws with precision and can literally draw for hours. Today he was using Owen’s Captain Underpants book to draw pictures of Captain Underpants and the Giant Turd monster. Owen said, “Why is Wesley always just looking at the drawing section of the book?”, and Aubrey said, “It’s OK, Wesley really likes to draw.” And Wesley said, “I’m a great artist!”

Another thing that’s been fun lately has been going to the lake for boating. Our whole family was invited out with another family, then I’ve gone out with just the guys a couple times at 6 in the morning. The lake is perfectly quiet and still, making for some really beautiful scenery and great wakeboarding on glass. I’m not that great, but I’m good at going for enough air each time that I usually crash, which for me is the only way to prove you’re trying to get better!

Here’s a few shots of me messing around on a wakeboard:

From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009
From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009
From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009

And here’s my favorite shot that I took of my friend John slaloming:

From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009

And here’s the best part of going to the lake with family lately: Aubrey has really liked going, which means she thinks it would be cool if we got a boat. So, we’re kind of planning ahead for it, thinking maybe a few years out when we’ve saved up and our youngest kids could handle the trip without much hassle. We figure it would be a great activity for the whole family and the lake is so close and the water is so perfect for much of the year. Woo hoo. Come visit us in 3-4 years and we’ll take you to the lake!

Oh, and Aubrey is almost 17 weeks!

Bear Lake 2009 and baby news!!

I’ll get to the news first: We’re having another baby! Aubrey is 13 weeks along, and baby #5 is due around February 13, 2010! We’re obviously very excited. It was fun for Aubrey to surprise all of our family in person during our trip. Aubrey made a cute t-shirt that said “bun in the oven” and she walked into the room wearing it. For some others, we had Wesley spread the word and he did it very cute, saying, “I have a surprise for you! We’re having another baby!” then running away while they processed what he had just said. Fun stuff. I’m very happy! And yes, I would be happy with either a girl or a boy 🙂

From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

We got back late last night after a very bumpy ride from SLC to RDU and a long and tiring but very fun vacation to Idaho and Utah. We spent the first week on the eastern shore of Bear Lake on the Idaho side, where we rented a huge 7,000 sq. ft. house that easily accomodated all 26 of us (11 adults and 15 kids).

Here’s a shot of all of us in the t-shirts that I designed:

From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

It was pretty posh with a climbing wall, ping-pong table, movie theatre and all the luxury accoutrements and styling of an upscale lodge cabin. My mom and all my siblings were there along with all the grandkids.

Matt brought his boat and we borrowed my uncle Brad’s two jet skis, so we spent every day down on the lake in the water. The water, by the way was crystal clear and bright blue, and was shallow for about 100 yards, making it easy for the kids to play in the water. I made a few runs on the wake board — I was feeling pretty comfortable and even got air a few times (right before face-planting usually). Boats are fun. Maybe in a few years it would be a fun pasttime for my family with all the lakes around Apex.

From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip
From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

Grady wants to go out to the boat:

From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

We also had a fun bingo game with prizes, outdoor olympics, morning calisthenics, karaoke and talent show, pinata, ping-pong tournament (Drew was “run-around” champion. I was traditional champ.), a surprise impromptu birthday cake for me (OK, it was a stack of creme puffs) and lots and lots and lots of food. And we had a lot of food. Did I mention food?

From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip
From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

We went to Garden City during the Raspberry Days festival and got the famous Bear Lake raspberry shakes.

After a full week at Bear Lake, everyone took off and we drove straight down to Park City (on my 36th birthday) and went to the Olympic Park and Museum and training center. We watched the US National aerial acrobatics ski tream training on the aerial ramps in the pool. That was very cool. Then Collin, Owen, and I rode the alpine slide before heading out.

We spent the rest of the 2nd week staying with Beth and Bryce in Pleasant Grove, in Bryce’s parents’ basement. It was relaxed and we made some fun day trips from there.

We took the kids up to “hike the Y” and they were troopers, as the temperature started soaring and it was very steep and dry and long, especially for our poor little 4-year-old Wesley who hiked in his Crocs with no socks. Owen seemed to be feeling the effects of the altitude (6200 feet at the top of the Y) and the heat the most, and I carried Grady up and down the whole way. Hopefully they will have good memories of the event. Afterwards we took them to the BYU Bookstore for some school gear and the Cougar Eat as an early BYU recruiting trip. We’re pretty sure Collin would hardly consider any other school. Nice.

From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

I also got to go golfing with Bryce, which was fun, and we had FHE with Aubrey’s grandma Smith, where Grady knocked his front tooth back. Aubrey pushed it back in place and it seems to be doing fine.

We also spent time visiting one of Aubrey’s friends from college, more time with Grandma Packham, and a picnic in American Fork canyon where we were lucky to get free rides on a zip line that is set up for church camps.

From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

Other highlights for our family:
2 bloody noses, 2 hornet stings, 2 bad blisters, 1 pinata crushed, 1 tooth knocked back (on 2-year-old), 1 legitimate lost tooth (6-year-old), one Y mountain climbed, 9 zip line rides, 2 alpine slide runs

Here’s a link to all of my photos from the vacation:

2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip

Outer Banks in July

Some friends invited us to crash on the floor of their beach rental for a couple of nights, so we took them up on the offer and headed to the OBX. The house was in Southern Shores, just south of Duck, and not far from Corolla, where we visited the Currituck Beach Lighthouse. We went to the beach three times in two days and had a blast. It was in the upper 80s with warm water the whole time.

From 2009 July – Outer Banks

Owen loved just being in the waves, like a fish letting each wave go over his head. Collin had a couple of great boogie board rides all the way in to shore. After each ride he looked back at me and held his fist in the air – the fist of victory! He obviously loved it. And Wesley was Mr. independent, just strolling up and down the beach exploring every which way and playing in the sand.  Grady also loved the sand and just being out of doors and exploring in the open breeze.

The Currituck Beach lighthouse was really fun to visit too. The boys love visiting and climbing new lighthouses. The old-school rails weren’t quite up to today’s width standards, so it was a bit nerve-wracking to take Grady up there.

We got back to Apex just in time to buy a box of fireworks and light them off in our driveway with some neighbors. It was a really great and relaxing week.

From 2009 July – Outer Banks
From 2009 July – Outer Banks
From 2009 July – Outer Banks
From 2009 July – Outer Banks
From 2009 July – Outer Banks
From 2009 July – Outer Banks
From 2009 July – Outer Banks

See the rest of the photos.

T-shirt contest results

After what turned out to be a very tight race between three or four designs, the results are in for the 2009 family reunion t-shirt contest.

  • 8 official entries
  • 25 ballots
  • Each ballot listed their top three t-shirts:
    • A 1st place vote = 3 pts
    • A 2nd place vote =  2 pts
    • A 3rd place vote = 1 pt
    • For a total allocation of 150 points

1st place, with 31 points (21.67% of total points), the Jet Skier design by Seth:

2nd place, with 29 points (19.33% of total points), the Rays of the Sun design by Aubrey:

3rd place, with 25 points (16.67% of total points), the Stylized Family Tree design by Amanda:

And in case you were wondering, here are the designers of the other entries:

Design 1: “Campfire kids”, by Matt
Design 2: “Grizzly bear and a colorful mountain sunset”, by Drew
Design 3: “Minimalist bear paw”, by Tara
Design 4: “Bear Lake Bash”, by Diane
Design 5: “Papa Packhams: Better Reunions”, by Sara/David

All t-shirts were listed on multiple ballots, so you are all to be congratulated. And my sincere apologies to Jake who submitted a very cool entry a long time ago, but I forgot about it and didn’t find it until after the voting process was complete (I owe Jake big time):
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Other interesting stats:

  • Most 1st place votes: Tree (7 first place votes)
  • On the most ballots: Jet skier (15 ballots)
  • Most popular among boys: Jet skier (9 ballots)
  • Most popular among girls: 4-way tie between campfire (Matt), sun rays (Aubrey), jet skier (Seth), and tree (Amanda), each on 6 ballots
  • Most popular among adults: Jet skier (10 ballots)
  • Most popular among non-adults: Sun rays, by Aubrey (10 ballots)
  • Henry abstained from voting